Clarifying Doubts About the Pure Land (II)
淨土釋疑(二)
Answer to Q46: (3 /3)
When we give birth to a child, what is our purpose? Is it to help that child attain liberation, or to let the child create offenses and negative karma, continue in the cycle of rebirth, and undergo suffering? This is extremely important to consider.
If, after giving birth to a child, we have no way to help that child attain liberation, then it would be better not to have children. A human birth is precious and difficult to obtain. If one wants to escape the cycle of the Six Realms, then without obtaining a human body, there is essentially no opportunity to do so.
After finally obtaining a human body, if one does not understand liberation or has no way to attain liberation, it is like entering a mountain of treasures and returning empty-handed.
What is more, suppose a child is fortunate enough to be born into a family that practices Buddhism. Yet, if we fail to help that child learn Buddhism and attain liberation. Then we have failed that child.
If that child cannot attain liberation, what about the grandchildren? What about great-grandchildren? What about the great-great-grandchildren? What about generation after generation of descendants?
Therefore, we must find a way to guide our children so that they can share our same understanding, faith, practice, and aspiration; so that we can all be reborn together in the Land of Bliss.
Ideally, the cycle of birth and death for our descendants should end with our children's generation. It should stop there. They should no longer continue wandering in samsara.
Therefore, everyone should seek liberation and aspire for rebirth in the Pure Land. The people dearest to us are our husbands, wives, and children, who we naturally want to attain liberation as well.
If we do not help them understand this, then our love for them is not truly the deepest form of love.
To truly love someone is to give them the very best, and the very best is the Pure Land teaching, the path of liberation through exclusively reciting Namo Amitabha Buddha, and attaining rebirth in the Land of Bliss.
續答第46問:(3 /3)
我們生下這個孩子,是要讓他解脫?還是要讓他造罪、造業,繼續輪迴、受苦 受難?這點很重要。如果生下孩子沒辦法讓他解脫,那就不要生,因為人身 難得,而要脫離六道輪迴,如果不等到做人,完全沒有機會;好不容易得人身 了,又不懂得解脫或沒辦法解脫,等於入寶山空手而回;好不容易,他很有福 報出生在學佛的家庭,我們卻不能讓他學佛解脫,這樣是我們愧欠他,他不 能解脫的話,孫子呢?曾孫呢?玄孫呢?子子孫孫呢?
所以一定要想辦法引導他來跟我們同見同信同行同生極樂世界。最好是我們 子子孫孫的生死輪迴,就到我們孩子這一代就好了,不要再輪迴下去了。所 以,人一定要求解脫、求往生,我們最親愛的就是先生、太太、兒女,我們都 想解脫了,如果沒有讓他了解這個觀念的話,那表示我們對他們的愛心不是 真正的愛心。真正愛他就必須要給他最好的,就是淨土法門 ── 念佛往生的 解脫之道。
Namo Amituofo!